I believe that is more imporant for a woman to not depend on anyone, This means you have to strong enough to stay on your own feets. You have to build yourself up, you have to do this for yourself and not for anyone. Life is more harder for a woman thats why be strong and never relay on anyone. Try not to put your feelings before let your mind speak before you never know when what happens. Some notice this too late and some too early. Thats why is always better to expect the worse and be ready to protect yourself.
As a woman never put a woman in a bad postition help them up even if they done bad to you, never watch a woman fail.