The secret to everything

For attractive lips, speak words of kindness. For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people. - Audry Hepburn
The secret to everything

No matter what

No matter how hard you try.

-It will always be less.

No matter what you do.

-It will be forgotten

No matter how kind you are.

-It will be used

No matter how sad you are.

-Nodboys business

No matter how much you care.

-Nobodycares

No matter how much you want it.

- They don't want it

No matter what!

-Noone understand you!!

“No matter what you do or say, there's nothing that you can do to make people understand you.” ...

 

Thats so true no matter what end of the day you only have yourself, in reality noone really cares about you. So all the harm you do just goes to your self.

No matter how much you care about someone they will always use it. Remember people love attention, they enjoy seen you sad and most of all they are having fun when they see you caring about them.

You need to show you care to people that do something in return. I've done it and I still do it in return I cry every night.

I always promise myself that tomorrow it's gonna be different. That I won't be talking to that person again but I can't stand it. Its like I need to stop because it's not good for me always stress to me but I can't because I don't know is just a weird feeling :/ People use my kidness as my weakness too much.

Only you know how it feels to get hurt over and over again. They promise you but they backstab you again. The closer you get the dangerous it gets :/ never be too close to someone end of the day they will leave you no matter who that is.

Sometimea you can't trust anyone you gotta keep it to yourself even if its stresses you out, its not healthy but people are so shit that they give you no other chose.

Positive

Positive thinking is really important it should be the top thing in your life because it has a big impact in peoples life. The way you think can change and affect your life, whether this is negative or positive. There are a lot of times people push them selves down just because somethings going wrong :/ but they forget that 'Everything happens for a reason' This saying is 101% true.. Not everything has to go perfect life has ups and downs, but in order to stay positive and be happy I think that we need to leave a space between the people that always have a negative mind on everything. To help other people you need to make peace with yourself. Then you can advice your friends or family step by step on how to improve.

-Bath/Shower.. Warm water will relax you and maybe slow music but not negative love songs you can listen to meditation music to relax whiles your in the shower or bath.

-Diary.. You can get pen paper.. create a blog.. open up a word document where you can write all your feelings if you don't like to open up to someone, never keep anything inside you

-Gym, Shopping, Cooking, Going Out, Working hard.. Don't just sit at home and pull negativity like a magnet towards you be outgoing, social time will go faster and you can relieve stress.

-Count.. If Your mad at something relax.. count from 1-10 breath slowly no panic.!

-Meditate/Yoga/Candles.. This is my favorite one. Is top perfect, amazing and helpful way of being postive

Motivation

Believer

Some people go through alot of bullshit, they learn dont's and do's in life.

I'm one of them, because I'm always trying to make my self believe that there is a miracle, something that can heal me inside. I can say thats why I'm not sure about my feelings, I can't decide if I can ever love the person, trust them, or give them another chance, and when it coems to attention is just the same feeling it feels too fake. When someone says nice things to me it takes me back to the past, where I had and felt fake people around me all the time. I was so different back then. I can't let anyone come close to me, because I'm too afraid of getting hurt again or showing them how destroyed I'am inside.
I have to hide it all the time, and I hate telling anyone how I feel because I love to show my strong side, as they see your weakness they will pull you down.
I have so many people around me, but I don't let anyone close to me, and thats what makes me feel lonely when I'm down. I'm scared to even tell anyone how sad I feel. I can cry all night long and still not tell the person what the actuall reason is.
There are times that even a tiny thing can make me so sad, because it's a big problem in my eyes. I just want to believe that I can change this side of me one day.

Respect

Not everyone understands the actual meaning of 'RESPECT'.

The person dosen't need to be older than you so you can respect them.

Respecting someone means giving them the love or care they deserve, but nowadays people find it hard   to do that. I believe if someone forgives you for a reason, they give you the chance to change what you've done to upset them, they give you another chance so you can make everything better, just because they have forgiven you, it dosen't mean they forgot about how you broke them in peaces...

Even saying sorry nowadays dosen't mean shit! They say sorry but noone realy means it, because they choose to do the same mistake again..

IS DEEEEEEEP! 

Your using the persons kindness as their weakness, how are they suppose to trust someone again?

They are not stupid, they are just too kind! The only bad thing they can do to you is wish that karma kicks your ASS!

They always say forgive but don't forget! 

But from now on I'll Not forgive and won't forget, just simply erase you off my life!

Heartless

Another Post!!!

Wasn't sure if I really should write this post after a long time, but yes decided to as I didn't get no sleep because my head is busy making decisions and was busy thinking all night long. Bloging makes me feel better so I'm just going to do it !

I don't know if its only me who feels like this but I actually hate this side of me I can be so careless and heartless that I end up hurting and uspeting people! Yes these are the people that care the most about me, who are always there for me. Is a big problem but I can't change I just hate showing my soft side no matter if its just saying I love you or seen someone cry on front of me! I always have to fight this feeling deep inside I'm fighting with my feelings. They are telling me to just go ahead and show how I care but my body wouldn't do it!

I don't show it then at night it eats me inside because I know it was wrong I push people away obiously at times I can be nice but most of the time I jjust can't do it feels so hard. :/
I'm making a big mistake because life is way too short, I don't want tto regret after, I just simply have to learn how to show my feelings and understand that theres nothing wrong with that!
I can only blame my past for this because I learned not to show too much and not to give away alot of love because I know I would end up getting hurt, I believe as a girl you sometimes have to hide your soft side but it's cool to show it to your loved once which I can't :/ But from this time on I promise my self to change because I need this big change in my life in order to keep positive!